Developing Character

Slowly, I'm attempting to plan out our school year.  I've been praying and slowly, methodically, and carefully planning out our studies.  It's been challenging for me this year because our summer has been busy.

One of the areas that God has placed in my heart to delve into is character training.  In the past I have thought this to be something that would happen through our Bible time.  And, while I am certain that nothing can transform like the Bible, I've discovered that my children's brains sometimes need a little more directness. 

For example, of my three children still at home, two of them have ADD/ADHD.  I will do whatever I need to in order to avoid giving them medication. Being in a homeschool setting allows me to adjust things to work toward their benefit.  I can give them more breaks.  I can limit sugar and processed foods.  I can feed them a good breakfast.  I can mix up the schedule so they don't get bored. 

The thought of doing character studies occurred as I was struggling with my seven year old.  She has been having issues, such as not listening well, not being obedient, finding mischief.  Ironically, she isn't meaning to be rebellious or defiant.  Things like not sitting still when she needs to, wandering around during play practice, forgetting that she shouldn't socialize during worship.  

It occurred to me that traits like attentiveness, self-control, and patience could be worked on a little more intensely.  My seven year old is a smart little girl, with many talents and gifts, but she can also be a bit distracted and sometimes show poor impulse control. 

I've been around ADD enough to know that it can be a genuine gift.  I refuse to think that my children are statistics that must be labeled.  God created each child  unique, with individual strengths and weaknesses.  

My girls each have places where they excel and places where they struggle.  Developing good habits and Godly character will remain with them.  

In my research, I knew I couldn't afford to purchase some expensive curriculum.  Instead, I have been piecing together free stuff I am finding online with things I have around the house.  I discovered a set of readers I have bought used randomly through the years contains stories that focus on various character traits.  I've also discovered some Devotionals on my shelves that coordinate with character traits.  

There are some products I may look into buying eventually, but at the moment it isn't a priority.  I'll wait until I find a good price for them used or on sale. 

I'm hoping this study blends well and adds depth to our lives.  For I know my character could also use improvement.  Since I learn as much as my children in our studies, I look forward to seeing what The Lord wants me to learn.