Character Does Count

This picture was taken earlier in the month as my husband and I went out to celebrate our anniversary.  We didn't do much, but at least we had time without children. We actually spent most of our time at Goodwill.  I was looking for some clothes, and not having my children with me meant I could shop without stress.  There was no bugging, no whining, and no added expense as they find "treasures" they think are a necessity.

We did go out for a burger.  

Did I care that we didn't have the funds for something more elaborate?

No.  Here's why...

My husband works hard.  He doesn't make a large income, but he is a hard-working, honest, God-fearing man.  He is faithful to his wife (me).  He is a devoted father.  He is a faithful servant at church.  He loves deeply.  He is a talented musician. 

But, in this day and age, he is not treated with much respect.  Sadly, since he doesn't make a large income, he is often treated with a slight disrespect by others.  It's as if who he is isn't enough. 

"Get more education."

 "Get a higher paying job."

While those that say these things mean well, it's not always practical advise.  With my husband's schedule, going for more education is not possible at the moment.  Finding a better paying job in our area is tough.  The economy is rough here.

I would love for my husband to make better money.  I would love for him to have more stable hours.  But, I love who he is more.

He is a man of high character.  To me, that means everything.  So many friends and family live in relationships where things are difficult.  She doesn't trust him cause he's cheated before.  He works all the time to make the big bucks.  She married him before she became a Christian and now they are unequally yoked.  He drinks heavily. 

So many things just weigh them down.  But because he might make good money, and they can live comfortably, they swallow their unhappiness.

I don't believed divorce is the answer.  Please don't misunderstand.  But character does count.  I'm fact, it counts more than most realize.

We may struggle for every dime, but I have a security that money can't buy.  I have a good man for a husband.  My children have an incredible father in their lives.  I pray their choice for a husband has just as strong a faith in God and a strong character.